1. Process of Resolving
The process of resolving something such as a problem or dispute
A firm decision to do something
Firmness of mind or purpose
New Year’s Resolution anyone? I make and take mine with a grain of sand, so when I break them, I don’t feel so bad. Then what’s the point right? Well everyone needs a new beginning, a starting point, a boost, so why not. So thought I share mine with you, and let you know how I’m doing. I think Resolutions, New Year or otherwise, would probably be more effective if we had someone to hold us accountable. But then it can be a very thin line between holding someone accountable, and the accountee lashing out in a fit of rage because she feels attacked and eating a sleeve of Oreos. Just thinking out loud here, not that I’d know anything about that!
1. First resolution: Ponytail restriction.
That’s right, I said it, and I’m owning it. For two years I have faithfully sported the quick and easy ponytail. You can’t really say much of anything bad about the ponytail; it’s quick, easy, wet, dry, out of your way and cool. I suppose that’s why so many of us “mom type” (yeah, I’m stereotyping) have a gnarly addiction to this do. I’m not going cold turkey here that might be too much! I am only allowing myself one day a week to pony tail it. How will the world recognize me? More importantly, I can’t believe I didn’t recognize me. I feel good without the pony-I look good without the pony. It’s worth the few extra minutes I lose of snooze.
2. Second resolution: No more monkeys eating in the car.
Oh stop, I can feel the laughter. Broke on day two. As we speak my car is littered with chip fragments and crunchy puffs. It’s just too easy, and we’re just too busy. I’m okay letting that one go, but I gave it a whirl. If anyone out there is able to go snack free in the car (and mind you your kids would have to be perfectly content, not screaming banshees) you have my admiration.
3. Third resolution: To be bold.
To walk the line outside of my comfort zone, to take on new challenges (by choice), to be bold in the things I say and in my convictions. I don’t wish to live my life in regret, no if I just would’ve done that, or just would’ve said that. It’s just a chance and if there is no bungee cord or illegal activity involved, then take a chance. Something miraculous might just happen!
I briefly toyed with the notion of tackling procrastination….however; I realized this blog was more than likely born from the very vice I speak. When I procrastinate, it is usually to do something else that needs to be done or something for my kids or self, so I’ve made peace with the “P” word for now.
Did you make any New Year’s Resolutions? How is it going?